almost hoped nobody would answer.
In the headlights of my motherâs car, I could better appreciate what Iâd done. Dadâs car was a foot or so shy of the water at the very bottom of the ditch but fully parked on one side of the deep embankment. The car looked out of place but oddly peaceful, too. Kind of sleepy. No hint of violence or high-speed trauma could be read into it. Dad walked around the scene, inspected for tire rubber on the road, dents in the fender, anything to explain how this could have happened, but no damage and no evidence of reckless speeding could be found. Another fifteen feet and I wouldâve made the turn.
âI wasnât speeding. I turned, and I guess I missed the road,â I repeated. I couldnât offer anything more than the self-evident.
âI can see that, Ryan.â
When my father makes a sentence, itâs never good to hear your name at the end of it. Dad dragged on his cigarette, exhaled hard through his nose, and chased the smoke with his signature, heavy sigh. The arc of my life readied for its final descent. When my father sighs, he sounds like a bull saddened by the colour red.
âHonestly, I couldnât see the turn.â
âDoâyouâseeâitânow?â he boomed.
âYes, but thatâs because the extra lights are on. Momâs car makes itââ
âDonât split hairs, Ryan. If you can see what youâve done, you can see enough to . . . to not have done it!â
He looked down the road and saw the tow truck coming. I heard its diesel engine.
âHow am I to understand this, Ryan? Did you fall asleep? Were you driving the shoulder?â I didnât answer. âAre you drunk?â
I worried I could still have beer breath and didnât want to have that offense on my head, as well.
âOkay, I had two or three beers at the party, but that was hours ago and Iâm not drunk at all,â I pleaded. âI just . . . I didnât . . .â
Nothing more could be argued. Heâd found his answer to the slow wreck. That was enough. Dad paid to have the car towed home instead of letting me drive it.
For two excruciating days, my father refused to speak to me. When I walked in a room, he left. If I asked him to pass the beans, he did, but put them down with a slam. I was with Greg in the lunchroom all over again. Yes or no questions were given nods or grunts. Ma carried on, business as usual, but her chipper edge had dulled. Quietly, she made an appointment to have my eyes checked, just in case, but stayed out of the situation, otherwise. Like me, I suspect she also waited for dad to break. Even my brothers and sisters waited, mostly in their rooms, like animals sensing a nasty shift in weather. Then,
one afternoon when he was driving me home from work, he suddenly pulled over and put on the emergency lights.
He turned to me and broke into a fury Iâve never known since. It was like rocketing across four lanes of traffic, every horn honking and every tire squealing. The emergency lights ticked their beat, but I could feel time slowing down, as it does.
In his rage my father surveyed everything Iâd done to endanger myself. Iâd lied about drinking. Iâd lied about not seeing the turn in order to hide the fact that Iâd been drinking, and who knows if Iâd done this before. Heâd clearly reconsidered the legend of the Rock King. Then he reminded me about my motherâs job at the police station, what she sees and hears every day about drunk drivers. Iâd endangered myself, my family, strangers, and in his judgment, Iâd demonstrated unforgivable idiocy. The only thing I had going for me was luck. I was lucky, he said, thatâs all, and being lucky doesnât make it any better.
We sat in silence on the side of the road. Soaked in self-pity, I stared out the window for an answer and fidgeted with loose change in my cup holder. Dad lit a cigarette