thinking.
Why didn’t Dad
put a roadside
emergency kit
in the car?
How could we travel
all that way
and not have one?
I kept searching,
and when my hand
touched something
hard and cold,
underneath the backseat,
I pulled it out.
A flashlight.
It wasn’t a lot.
But it was something.
“Are you sure you don’t want it?” Vic asked me.
“You might be scared by yourself.”
I shook my head
and placed it in her hand,
mine wrapping around hers
for just a second.
I made her eat
the rest of the chips
before she left,
and she drank lots of water
plus a little brandy.
We talked about Ivy
and keeping her fed
and warm
and all the other things
a baby needs.
When she looked at me,
her tongue curled up,
I saw fear
in her eyes.
But I saw
determination there
too.
And when she looked at her baby daughter,
I didn’t see a tongue-curling chameleon anymore.
I saw
one thing
and one thing
only.
A kind,
loving
mother.
I thought of my mom
and how hard she fought
with love
in her heart
for us.
Maybe it’s not about
determination
or love
or how hard
you can fight.
Maybe it’s just about
fate
and what is meant
to be.
And so,
when I really
didn’t know what to say,
I told her,
“Good luck,”
as she hugged me good-bye.
Because
that was probably what
she needed most
in that moment.
“If I don’t make it—”
“Don’t talk like that,” I told her.
“You’ll find help and you’ll get us out of here.”
Then it occurred to me
she probably needed
something else
in that moment.
“Dad would be proud of you, Vic.
He loves you. He really does.”
She nodded.
“Come back to us,” I said.
I really,
really
meant it.
gone
I watched her walk
until her silhouette
was swallowed up
by the forest
and there was
once again
nothing to see
but white.
Words and a melody
popped into my brain—
a song
asking to be
written.
I grabbed my guitar
and sang it out loud to Ivy,
who watched and listened,
like she totally loved it.
“Walking away with love in your heart,
hoping the coldness won’t keep us apart.
“Playing the memories like songs in my head.
Things we’ve shared and words we’ve said.
“Don’t drift away.
I want you to stay.
Don’t drift away.
You really should stay.
Don’t drift away.
Please…
come back to stay.”
a snow-angel friend
The formula,
the water,
and the food
weren’t the only things
we’d been stingy with.
We’d been treating the diapers
like a precious commodity,
making Ivy wear them
as long as possible.
When we went to our
make-believe
outhouse in the snow,
we took the used diapers
with us.
Ivy drifted off to sleep,
so I used the opportunity
to bundle up
and head to our
special tree,
diaper in hand.
The clouds above
had cleared slightly
and the snow
had stopped falling
for the moment.
I took just a second
to appreciate
the pure beauty
around me.
I felt sad
that I couldn’t
enjoy it
by building a snowman
or making snow angels.
And then I thought,
Why can’t I?
I flopped down on the ground
into the fresh powder,
my arms and legs
gliding back and forth.
When I stood up,
I looked down at the angel,
white and delicate,
like lace.
A guardian angel
for us.
alice in winter wonderland
In the afternoon,
when Ivy started fussing
and I’d fed her
some formula
and there was nothing else
I could do,
I pulled out the antique book
and started reading.
My voice
or the story
or something
calmed her,
and so we settled in.
I read about Alice
d
r
o
p
p
i
n
g
down the rabbit hole
and growing small
and growing big
and growing small again.
Alice was
by herself
down that hole.
She wanted
to follow
the rabbit
so bad,
but she wasn’t able to.
I’m pretty sure
I knew
exactly
how she felt.
from bad to worse
So thirsty,
I drank
the last few drops
of remaining water.
My hand
became a shovel
as I scooped snow
into one of Ivy’s
bottles.
It